The most important thing is feeling that you are in control & progressing(expanding the boundaries of your present reality) and not straying too far away from your natural proclivities developed during the formative years

If you stray too away from your own natural proclivities, it’s quiet time costly.

Do not compete with luck, you cannot necessarily win and you will have a bad time trying. Hence, just ignore the naturally arising feeling(s) of envy.

Give yourself 90% efforts – 10% chance of pursuing what you desire as life is an infinite game and we want to Minimize OVERALL regrets at the end of life, not just regrets in only one department.

Start slow, be persistent, have humility, focus & temperament (which are hugely lacking in today’s generation) and you can achieve marvels.